September 4, 2024
September 4, 2024
With deep sorrow, the family of the late Christopher Ryan
Doucette announces his passing on Wednesday, September 4, 2024, at the
Palliative Care Unit at Lions Gate Hospital in North Vancouver, B.C., at the
age of 64. He is survived by his loving wife, Maria Valenzuela, his brothers,
Stephen Doucette and Raymond Doucette, and a wide circle of close friends,
cousins, relatives. He was preceded in his death by his mother, Marie Denise
Doucette, and his father, Eugene Alan Doucette. The family extends gratitude to
the staff of the Palliative Care Unit for their support and compassionate care
during this difficult time. Heartfelt appreciation is also extended to those
who touched his life.
Born on October 13, 1960, Chris was a loving husband, a
steadfast friend, and the world’s best brother. Born in Corner Brook,
Newfoundland, Chris wasted no time in setting himself apart as a curious and
independent child. While the incident where he and his brother Steve kidnapped
their infant brother, Raymond, put him in his baby carriage and ran madly down
the bumpy back alleys pushing the carriage in front of them has not been
forgotten, he was in fact a loving and protective brother.
He was gifted musically, much like his father, playing flute
in the Regina High School band and in years beyond. During this time, he taught
himself to play the guitar and write music. Something he repeated in later
years when he taught himself to play piano.
He was very active with the Academy of Music and frequently could be
found jamming in their studios on evenings and weekends. In the 1970’s he
developed a passion for freestyle skiing and played a pivotal role in the grass
roots movement of the sport at Marble Mountain in Corner Brook where he
competed, often taking gold medals, and assisted in acquiring club membership
with the Canadian Freestyle Association for sanctioned competitions.
It surprised no one when, years later, he turned out to be
gifted mathematically and discovered Computer Science at Memorial University.
He was a brilliant programmer and incredibly talented in a wide range of
mathematical fields such as: calculus, topology, combinatorics, graph theory,
logic, and optimization. All of which fueled his ability to program a graphics
VLSI chip editor, image processing APIs, facial recognition systems (decades
before the technology we have today), and an algorithm that improved the method
for comparing evolutionary trees (critical to our understanding of
relationships between species) by an order of magnitude – a result that stood
for 20 years.
He moved on to McMaster University after that and graduated
with an MBA in Finance, returning to Memorial to manage the Faculty of Business
Administration and teach for a few years. Like many Newfoundlanders, he caught
the move away bug and ended up in Vancouver working for Digital Equipment;
designing networks for MCI, Air Traffic Control systems for the FAA, and
internet security for the Privy Council and Museum of Civilization.
He eventually went out on his own and served as an
independent consultant for the rest of his career; designing systems for
internet and ATM banking, cheque settlement, wire transfer, and treasury
deposit and capital management. Billions of transactions have been processed
through systems he created.
All of the above is not intended as a resume, but rather to
show how Chris, and many like him, are the quiet heroes that underpin the world
as we know it. Although absent of flashy book tours and speaking engagements,
Chris was one of those unsung heroes that built the society and systems we take
for granted. This is also apparent in
later work he did as a trainer. Chris created and delivered a wide range of
technical classes to thousands of corporate clients. His courses and the way he
taught them were renowned for their mixture of sophistication and completeness
while also being accessible and easy to grasp for those less experienced than
him. This combination is incredibly rare and the students who took these
courses have in turn done their part in keeping the wheels of our modern world
turning.
Despite the business of his professional world, most of us
will remember him for his fun and adventurous approach to life. If at some
point you didn’t find yourself bent over laughing at something Chris had said,
done, or just his infectious laugh, you have unfortunately missed one of the
joys of knowing him. Never one to hold back on his thoughts, he exposed the
world as he saw it and it was difficult to disagree with him; you were more
likely to leave with deeper insights after spending time with him than any
memories of having been on the other side of a discussion.
In 1996 he met Maria Valenzuela and she quickly became the
love of his life and constant companion. They built a cozy life in North
Vancouver, enjoying a wide circle of friends and could often be found on the
slopes of various local and other ski resorts with their close ski buddies. Chris’s early love of water sports
(windsurfing, sailing, water skiing) resurfaced in his new province and he
bought a sailboat. Of course, he had to
(almost) completely redo the rigging, interior, engine and many other things as
boats always enchant one to do. The
boatyard where he kept the boat was so impressed with his work that they
offered him to take over their business as the owner was looking to retire. Chris taught Maria how to sail which included
too many adventures to recount here, but memories of which will be treasured by
all who sailed with him.
He kept up his love of music and over the years amassed a
large collection of guitars, each with their own unique sound, various amps,
keyboards and recording gear. He would
compose pieces and play in the den with Maria keeping him company while she
cooked in the kitchen; he rarely played for anyone else.
He was keen on various sports – golf, rollerblading,
swimming, biking, boxing, weight training – some new and some previous
activities that he’d returned to. With
the new ones, he tackled them like he did anything new he undertook, he
researched everything he could about them, painstakingly selected and setup the
appropriate gear and then started, constantly tweaking his technique and gear
as needed to meet his goals.
There would be many wine tastings, dinners, clubs and other
outings with friends but most importantly enjoying as much time as they could
for just the two of them. This desire to be with Maria guided Chris in his last
years and months as he fought his cancer and did everything he could to extend
his time with her.
Although Chris has passed on, he will remain with all of us
in our memories and ways we have been changed by his unforgettable personality.
For anyone interested in donating
to the Palliative Care Unit at Lions Gate Hospital (which is called "North
Shore Hospice and Palliative Care Project"), donors can click on the
following link https://lghfoundation.com/tribute-donation/, selecting “Tribute Donations”, click on "In Memory of" and entering
Christopher Doucette, then select "Hospice and Palliative Care"
as the designation for the donation. Tax receipts will be issued by the
Lions Gate Hospital Foundation.
You are invited to leave a personal message for the family.
My deepest condolences to Maria on the passing of Chris. I only met him once. A lovely man., a good man. Listening to my sister Rosari I knew him well. May he Rest in peace
~ Gretta O Connor
I met Chris for the first time in march of this year through our adhoc cancer support group. I quickly recognized him as an intelligent and passionate person I regret not meeting him earlier in life I think we could have been great friends
Dear Maria, Chris's brother, family and close friends.
I was saddened to hear of his passing. I met Chris and Maria, through mutual friends. A lovely man. I can remember his presence, gentle manner towards Maria, kindness, and wit.
This heartfelt letter in honour of your brother, is truly touching.
Thank you for sharing all of his "Wonderfulness"!
Carrie
~ Carrie Nygard
To Chris's family l’m just hearing of this today, my deepest condolences on his passing. We grew up together in Corner Brook and had many laughs at Marble over the years. Although we lost touch many years ago l would get an update or two when l ran into his father in Corner Brook. May your many fond memories help you thru this difficult time. RIP my friend!
~ Greg Rumbolt