October 10, 2024
October 10, 2024
Charles Robert Martin - Obituary
Date of Birth: September 23, 1926
Date of Death: October 10, 2024
The Martin Family are saddened to announce the death of their larger-than-life patriarch, Charles Robert Martin, at age 98, peacefully and at home, surrounded by his loving family. Dad always said he’d outlive us all and he almost succeeded! Dad is survived by his sons, Michael and Kerry, and his daughter, Michele, as well as four grandchildren, Keri, Rebecca (Trevor), Morgan, and Cassandra, and two great grandchildren, Amira and Alexander, his sister-in-law, Margy Koehler, numerous nieces and nephews (especially Martha, Patty, Colleen, and Sarah), and his cousins, Maxine and Donald. Dad was predeceased by his beloved wife of 66 years, Arabella (2021), his infant daughter Lisa (1956), and his three sisters, Joan, Marcelle, and Jean, and his niece Cherie (1987).
Dad was born in 1926 in Buffalo, New York, to Charles Martin
and Angeline Guenette. As the first born and only son, Dad was a natural
protector of his three younger sisters and spent a lot of his time making sure
his mother and sisters were taken care of during the Great Depression. Dad
proudly served with the US Merchant Marines as an acting Able-Bodied Seamen
starting in 1944 (honourably discharged in 1951), which afforded him the
opportunity to both help support his family and travel all over the world. Dad
met the love of his life, Arabella, when she attended nursing school in
Buffalo. They married in 1954 and were living in Richmond, Virginia, where
Michael was born. Dad was selling encyclopaedias for Colliers, and they asked
him if he wanted to open the new Vancouver office. Dad and Mom saw this as a
great opportunity and packed up Michael and their 1953 Chevy and headed off to
the West Coast, arriving in May of 1956 to a beautiful Vancouver summer, thinking
that they had arrived in paradise as they lived in Kitsilano and spent their
days on the beach. Lisa, Kerry, and Michele soon followed. Sadly, Lisa was a
“blue baby” with many medical issues and passed away shortly after Dad
delivered her.
In the 1960’s, Dad opened his insurance business, Charles
Martin Agencies, and ran it successfully for several years. Dad was a natural
born storyteller, and many of those amazing stories arose from his real-life
experiences with insuring a lot of the “happening” night clubs and lounges of
the day. Even then, Dad was a confirmed night owl who could party all night
with the best of them, and still conduct business the next day. In 1965, one of
Dad’s clients asked him to look into some mining interests which was Dad’s
introduction to the mining industry. Dad aced the Canadian Securities course
and actively managed and consulted for various mining companies over the next
several decades well into his 90’s.
In addition to his keen interest in mining, Dad was also a
patron of the Blues and music scene in Vancouver, attending the weekly jam
sessions at the Princeton almost without fail right up to COVID. Dad loved all music
and was a talented singer in his own right. He was also a supporter of the
musicians who played the music he loved, and he was well known as someone you
could talk to if you needed an ear or a shoulder, or just someone to listen or
give advice. One of Dad’s biggest regrets was that he had major problems with
his balance as he got older, and this meant he could no longer dance. Dad and
Mom were so much fun to watch on the dance floor—we hope that they are now tripping
the light fantastic as they whirl off together across the heavens. Dad loved
nothing better than a good party and that often involved getting a bunch of
musicians together to play and sing till the wee hours and, sadly, his life was
diminished by the fact that his deteriorating health and COVID prevented him
from doing this. Dad would like all those musicians whose playing brought him
such joy and pleasure over the years to know how much he appreciated their
talents and willingness to share their gifts.
Dad was an avid fly fisherman who taught many how to fly
cast and he loved spending time up at the family cabin at Walloper Lake and
being out on the water, and while Mike worked hard to ensure Dad was able to do
this for as long as possible, Dad missed being able to get out and fish these last
few years. When we were growing up, Dad
always had a boat of some kind, sometimes inflatable, sometimes wooden, and we
kids were the envy of the neighbourhood because we got to go out fishing on the
ocean or camping at Cultus Lake every summer, all of which instilled in us so
many fond childhood memories.
Dad was adamant that he wanted to stay at home right up
until the end. In order to honour Dad’s wishes, Mike and Kerry both took on the
role of primary caregivers and provided such diligent and loving care to Dad
over the last few years. They were able to achieve this with the consistent help
of Dad’s two other caregivers, Michael and Irvin, who became like family. Dad
was also supported by his two dear friends, Ziggy and Bill, who never failed to
check up on him and be there for him as his health failed. As well, Dad
received truly amazing care from the entire Palliative Care Team at Vancouver
Home Health, with the assistance of Dr. Slater, and the caring and
compassionate Community Health and overnight nurses and clinicians, including
Scott, Tracey, Winnie, Louie, Sean, Thuy, Jenny, and so many others—we could not
have done it without you. We are eternally
grateful to all of you for your unceasing kindness, competence, compassion, and
wisdom in guiding us and Dad along in his final journey and ensuring Dad’s
wishes and needs were always paramount and helping us to find the best balance
between the two. Because of your caring, concern, and quick responses to
everything that we asked of you, Dad was able to die the way he lived—in
control as much as possible, and on his own terms. Thank you.
You are invited to leave a personal message for the family.
It is with heartfelt condolences. I’m sending to the family. I’ve known your mom and dad for many many years. Both your mom and dad stood up for me when I married Robert Plouffe, who was a great friend of your father’s. My heart is heavy as I feel Losing close friends, who were like family, only makes my world feel emptier. We enjoyed many visits with your family, and enjoyed many dinners at your home. When my children were young, both Richard and Jason have very fond memories of our many visits. I will be there, to give you hugs of strength. No, my heart is heavy for you with everlasting love, Doreen Plouffe, Jason, Richard and families.
~ Doreen Plouffe
I'd known Charles since my teens and he always welcomed me as part of the Martin family. I remember many a family meal, back in the early days and later sharing a few evenings at the Princeton with him and the family. The loss of Charles and Arabella will leave a big gap in my life. I loved both dearly. My deepest condolences to the Martin family. Love always.
~ Heather Duruisseau
lovely memories and send off for your dad. I remember my own memories of your dad, having your mom and dad and baby Mike close to us in Buffalo, your summer visits to Cowlesville . Your dad was a charmer and a wonderful storyteller. I'm glad I got to see both of them at your mom's birthday party. "I love you uncle Chuck".
~ linda Stever Klaiber
Mike, Michele and Kerry we send you our most sincere condolences. We so enjoyed our visits with Charlie, Arabella and all of you. We will treasure the fabulous memories we made.
Your Dad will be truly missed but he will never be forgotten. He will live on in our hearts.
Sending prayers, love and hugs to all of you,
Vivian and Maxine
~ Vivian and Maxine
We will all miss Charlie as fellow musicians. I only knew Charlie for 7 years but we became very good friends & I'll always miss him. I send my deep condolences to his family & friends.
Charlie was
really lucky to have such good and caring family support from Mike, Michele and Kerry
as well as from his medical professionals in his final months, and he certainly
deserved the best from everyone involved.
I first met
Charlie in early 1979 when I was in the brokerage business in Portland and
Charlie was actively involved with his public mining companies in Vancouver. I
came to be very impressed over the years by his knowledge, common sense,
honesty and fairness in a business where many of those involved lacked such
important qualities. Over the years we interacted and worked together on
several projects in the mining business and one in a hi-tech software business which
seemed to be far removed from most of Charlie’s mining endeavors. That one
impressed me because of Charlie’s ability to navigate so well in a field where
he really had no technical background and was already in his 70’s at the time.
Unfortunately,
due to the limitations of distance, I was not able to be around Charlie as much
and as often as I would have liked to, but we sometimes spoke on the phone several
times a week. I know that he really liked music but I never had a chance to
hear him perform until his 85th birthday party at the Princeton, when
I saw him really do his thing on his harmonica.
Charlie and
I were still actively trying to find a good home for his major mining project,
which he had been involved with going back many years, right up until the end
of his exciting life. Hopefully that will be accomplished very soon, and even
though he won’t have had the satisfaction of seeing it happen in person, I’m
sure that he will be belting out the Blues on his harmonica when it does.
I will
really miss you, Charlie. Hang in there until we meet again.